Monday, April 6, 2009

Proverbs 25 - Wise Relationships

LINK: Proverbs 25

BACKGROUND
Proverbs 25-29 are proverbs of Solomon that were compiled long after Solomon died, by King Hezekiah's men. Hezekiah was one of the eight godly kings to reign on the throne in the Kingdom of Judah. He apparently wanted to learn from Solomon's wisdom, unlike most of the kings who ignored God's word.

These proverbs are grouped together topically. Subjects covered in chapter 25 are:
  • kings (or other people with much authority) and relating with them (25:1-7)
  • relating with neighbors and friends (25:8-20)
  • dealing with enemies (25:21-24)
  • self (25:25-28)

REFLECTION

There are four basic principles here about kings. (1) Kings will search out matters that affect them or their kingdom. (2) On the other hand, a wise king does not reveal his own heart and mind to others. (3) A king who refuses to participate in wickedness will establish his rule as being one of righteousness. (4) In the event that you have the opportunity to come before a king, be humble!

There are several principles on how to treat friends and neighbors. (1) Do not be quick to argue. (2) Do not reveal things that friends have spoken to you in confidence. (3) A wise friend says the right things at the right time in the right way. (4) A good friend is faithful but does not boast. (5) Don't overstay your welcome at a friend's house. (6) And never bear false witness.

Enemies - Treat them with kindness. If an enemy is hungry or thirsty, help him. The Lord will reward you.

Self - (1) It is refreshing to hear good news from those who live far away. (2) A righteous man will give up the argument when appropriate. (3) Practice self-control. (4) Be humble.

APPLICATION
Think about how you relate with these different people in your life. Based on Solomon's advice given here, are there some adjustments you need to make? Out of these, I think my biggest weakness is not being willing to "give up the argument." In my humanness, I want to have the last word, insisting that I am right, proving my point . . . . even if it's just in my own head. (I don't actually argue much with anyone, but the argument might still be there in my heart.) It takes humility to give up the argument.

PRAYER
Lord, teach us your wisdom. Search our hearts today and reveal to us any things we need to change. We want our hearts and minds to be pleasing to you in all things, all areas of life. Thank you for this great wisdom you have given us through Solomon's words! Help us to learn to apply it to our lives. In the name of Jesus, amen.

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